Before you can start in on the main course, you need your appetizer - foreplay. Your lover might not even be in the mood off the start, and you need a few sure fire methods to get her fired up.
1. Start off Slow - Foreplay isn’t a race to see just how fast she’ll let you have sex with her. Take it nice and slow, gentle touching and kissing are great to slowly get her into the mood.
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2. Hold off on going south - This is also not a race to see how fast you can get your mouth down there either. There are numerous areas on a woman’s body that are extremely sensitive to stimulation, and will help with overall arousal.
3. Moving to Massage - A slow, luxurious full body massage can simultaneous relax your partner and get them aroused. This combination can lead to great sex, as well as a great mood during and after intercourse.
4. Talk the talk - Many women love being paid attention to. While you are massaging her, tell her exactly what you want to do to her, where, and just how long and hard you’ll be doing it. Make it as detailed as possible, and see how fast that gets her worked up.
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Massage is great for getting out tension - but how about using it to turn up the heat? Erotic massage can be as gentle as a full body massage with a feather, or as thorough as a deep, penetrating caress. There are a number of different types of erotic massage techniques, but only a few which can be used effectively for a sensual massage.
Aromatherapy massage is very sensual, using essential oils and long strokes to promote calmness and relaxation. However, there are also oils which can provide for an aphrodisiacs effect. That can be great fun, especially after getting all your lover’s muscles nice and relaxed.
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Another interesting type of erotic massage is stone therapy, which involves the use of heated and chilled rocks. This provides a number of different sensations, as well as deep tissue massage.
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Doggy style positions allow for easier stimulation of the G spot, as well as some great body contact opportunities. It allows for the rhythm to be shared by both, as well as a range of access to parts of the body you might otherwise not be able to reach so easily. You can also provide a lot of clitoral stimulation with your hands while you are thrusting.
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The basic position is of both people on hands and knees, with the man penetrating from behind. So long as you are both in a position to not have much wear on the knees, this is a great position for both fast and prolonged intercourse. Pillows can help relieve some stress if need be.
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If you haven’t done it, you must find time to have sex in your car! It’s one of those things that you hear your friends talk about, or see on the movies, and think to yourself, ‘I could never do that!’ Right? Well, there is no reason that you can’t get hot and heavy with your guy in the car.
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Men love their cars, and they love women, so what better combination, than cars and women?!
Of course if you want to have sex in your car, you have to realize that missionary position is just not going to cut it! You are going to have to get creative if you want to make it work.
One of the easiest positions if you are just starting out is the modified missionary. In this position, the women needs to recline in the passenger seat while the man climbs on top. The man needs to keep his feet on the floor of the car while you can put your legs on the floor as well, or if there is room, get them up on the dashboard of the car.
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