Before you can start in on the main course, you need your appetizer - foreplay. Your lover might not even be in the mood off the start, and you need a few sure fire methods to get her fired up.

1. Start off Slow - Foreplay isn’t a race to see just how fast she’ll let you have sex with her. Take it nice and slow, gentle touching and kissing are great to slowly get her into the mood.

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2. Hold off on going south - This is also not a race to see how fast you can get your mouth down there either. There are numerous areas on a woman’s body that are extremely sensitive to stimulation, and will help with overall arousal.

3. Moving to Massage - A slow, luxurious full body massage can simultaneous relax your partner and get them aroused. This combination can lead to great sex, as well as a great mood during and after intercourse.

4. Talk the talk - Many women love being paid attention to. While you are massaging her, tell her exactly what you want to do to her, where, and just how long and hard you’ll be doing it. Make it as detailed as possible, and see how fast that gets her worked up.

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