Yes, you might not know this - but tickling can be a very erotic experience. You’ll see how it relates to BDSM by the time I get done explaining everything to you. It’s quite a fascinating subject, to be sure. Playful and non threatening, erotic tickling is a great way to introduce BDSM elements into your relationship.

The loss of control of the way your body reacts to the tickling is a type of power transfer. Power goes from you to your tickling partner - and that’s the basis of BDSM. However, it’s power play that you’re laughing through, so it’s not scary at all, even if the phrase sounds a bit overwhelming.

Photography by SuicideGirls.

Everyone is a little bit different in their ticklish spots, and you should also be prepared if you or your partner have no ticklish spots at all. There’s not much you can do in the latter situation, but it doesn’t happen too often. You might just need to relax and explore their body to find secret ticklish spots.

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