All too often when we are in a relationship we get caught up in the details of day to day life and things may become stale between the sheets. Turn up the heat when you surprise your partner by picking him up at the office on a Friday afternoon to whisk him away for a wild and romantic weekend break. Start by blindfolding your partner and begin driving to your secret destination.

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The element of surprise is essential to building up the anticipation that your man will feel, because he is completely out of control and for most men, that is an unusual feeling, especially on romantic weekend breaks. As you drive to your pre-planned destination you are going to need to keep the conversation going. What are you going to talk about? Whatever you do, do not talk about the weather or your day at work. This is your time to get a little wild. While he is blindfolded, you may feel that you can open up even easier because he is not watching you as you talk.

Give him a few hints as to where you are going, but don’t make it obvious, keep it mysterious or it won’t be as much fun as you build up the suspense. Be very elusive to his questions because that will keep him guessing about this weekend break. Talk sexy to him; tell him what you might do to him if he is a good boy (or bad boy) on the car ride.

So where do you take him?

You might be wondering where you should take your man on this wild weekend break. That is totally up to you. But the thing that you need to remember is it needs to be away from home and all of the distractions of home including cell phones, computers, and televisions (unless you plan on watching dirty movies). Your destination does not have to be expensive, go with what your budget affords you. A five resort spa may be out of the question, but isn’t a cheap motel kind of fun too, even romantic in some way?

When you arrive at your destination, take your man by the hands and lead him into your little love nest. It is important to take the time to prepare your hotel room before you get your man there. Go in advance and get the lighting ready, candles or scarves on the lights, put your wine on ice or set out whatever alcohol you prefer, prepare a small stereo with some music that will put you in the right mood to have fun. You will also want to have a bag of tricks prepared, things like furry handcuffs, feathers and massage oils. And do not forget to have some snacks ready for later, you will be hungry.

This is your weekend to play a little bit and break out of your ordinary rolls, you will light your man up when you lead him into the room and over to the bed. Slowly undress him while keeping his blindfold on, lay him on the bed and use the furry handcuffs to keep him there. This is your time to have fun with your guy and take all of the control out of his hands, literally.

What about the rest of the weekend break?

It can be a lot of fun to spend the weekend pretending that you just met each other and are having a torrid love affair. Go out for brunch in an out of the way place, and flirt unmercifully the entire time. Tell your guy during pancakes that you are not wearing panties and watch him hurry through the meal! Spend the rest of the day lying in bed teasing each other and learning all about each others bodies as if for the first time.

A surprise weekend where you take all of the control away from your guy might be just what the doctor ordered to bring some spark into your relationship. Take full advantage of a weekend away, many women find that they can cut lose and break out of their shells when they are not in their comfort zone, so get out and get wild!

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