Spice Up Your Relationship

Many women are self conscious about their bodies - too self conscious to even think about wearing lingerie. My advice - flaunt it! I know it can be tough, but no one is perfect (maybe heavily airbrushed though). The best way to make yourself look and feel more sexy is a heavy dose of self confidence. In the meantime, there are ways to compensate for areas that you are most unhappy with. Just remember, your lover wants you for more than just your body, and loves you the way you are.

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Problem Area #1 - The Breasts

Some women think they’re too small, and many styles of lingerie cater direction to this fear. Bustiers and corsets are excellent for augmenting what you have already. They both push up and add to the cleavage area, which helps to make them appear larger. There are also a number of teddys, negligees, and chemises that have under wire bras implemented in the design. This can help in a more subtle way, as well as being more comfortable for you. These can also come with padding to help.

If you aren’t worried about what size they are, but you do want to bring them out more, try lingerie that has either very small coverage (such as only the nipple) or with the breasts left open completely. These still often come with under wire, so you still get augmentation.

Problem Area #2 - The Stomach

This is another area that is a major bane for many of us (myself included). There is an absolutely ton of ways to help flatten and shape the stomach and torso. The first, and probably the most uncomfortable, would be your classic corset. This helps if you’re on the thin side to give you more of a curve, and will also flatten and tame the stomach. Most corsets aren’t exactly the kind of clothing you want to lounge around in, however.

There are also flattening panties and boy shorts that do wonders. Stretch materials ensure you have a perfect fit, and the material also smooths and flattens out undesirable weight.

Problem Area #3 - The Ass

Many men have an extra special focus on the ass. However, you might not think your booty has what it takes. There’s many different worries about this area - whether its too big, too small, too flat, too round - it can drive you batty!

There are cuts of lingerie that can help with almost every problem. If you think your have a small butt, try making it look larger with small bikini cut underwear or a g string.
For making you look smaller, boy shorts work well, as does a regular thong. To show off your luscious booty even better, try getting lingerie that shows it all with no coverage of the cheeks. Drafty but fun!

Problem Area #4 - The Legs

This is another area of some concern. We all know that men love their lovely long legs on the ladies (that’s a mouthful) but you might be worried that you aren’t up to par. A very simple fix for that is to wear a garter belt and stockings, or wear high heels (which are incredibly sexy on their own). This will break up the bare area and make your legs look longer.

Again, you should be happy with your body, but these tips can help you adjust your lingerie style to your strengths and weaknesses. Remember, you’re doing this for yourself and your lover, have fun and appreciate what you have!

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