What if you’ve gotten your lover warmed up to role playing and you are stuck for ideas? After all, you’ve had to be wonderfully creative, open, and frank to get this far! If you have a brain freeze, no worries! There are many scenarios and scripts that you can act out, or build upon yourself. Use these following ideas either in their entirety, or to provide a groundwork for your own fantasies.

From the tried and true, to the truly wild, here are some ideas to use in your role playing.

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Strangers in the Night

We’ll start out simple. The basic concept around this role play is that of being complete strangers to one another. You will simply tell your partner where to go, and at what time to be there. When you arrive at the bar, act as though you don’t even know your lover. Order your drink, then work out a plan in which to slowly seduce that luscious stranger that caught your eye.

Send them a drink, or go over and start off with a (possibly corny) pick up line. Start off with some casual touch - a brush of their hair, an arm around the shoulders.

If you are at a dance club, you might want to get your partner to dance - or you might be planning your next seductive move. Slowly begin working your partner up as you send more drinks their way. Soft, subtle caresses work well here.

Before you both get too drunk to do anything coherent, suggest that you drive your partner home, because you’re worried about how much they drank.

Park in a secluded area, and just go to town, letting the anticipation that you both built up go. Then drive back to the bar and make sure to get your partner’s car too!

Light Power Play

This is going to encompass a great many of the more cliché roles people think of when engaging in sexual role play. The majority of these are a strong factor of the power play - one dominant, and one submissive. You can also turn these roles around completely. After all, sometimes the student gets an upper hand on their teacher.

These are some of the most popular in light power play:

French Maid/Boss: You come home to find a beautiful French maid doing anything but cleaning - she’s pleasuring herself on the job. Ripe for power exchanges, and a great introduction to sexual role playing, this is one of the fun roles to play around with. Plus, who wouldn’t want a chance to use a feather duster quite like that.

Student/Teacher: The misbehaving student and the teacher - whether you really want to see your lover in a school girl outfit, or if you want to get spanked by a ruler, this will be a good role for you! If the student wants to turn the tables, just take control and get your way. A definite A plus grade!

Cheerleader/Football Player: Going back to high school all over again, and is a great excuse to see a mini mini skirt! Whether you meet outside the football field, or have a bit of ‘tackle’ football in your living room, this is a role that either person could take dominance in. This makes it very flexible, and is a good choice for starting out with.

Police Officer: This is a definite role of authority, but be careful. You can succumb to the wiles of the naughty person you are arresting. Bonus points if you act out arresting them for indecent exposure. This is a great way to use props like handcuffs, a squirt gun (squirting cold water over your partner while they’re handcuffed and unable to get away is yummy), and gives you the thrill of the unexpected.

Bartender/Drinker: This works great if you have your own bar in your house. Play bartender for your partner as they attempt to make you forget that you shouldn’t be mixing business with pleasure. This is also a great way to get sloppy drunk and attempt to have sex on a barstool without falling over. At the very least, if you remember it the next day you can laugh about it!

Pimp/Prostitute: This might be a bit unconventional, but role playing is all about trying out different things! Demand that your prostitute pay you, and when they can’t, you take things into your own hands by getting any number of sexual favors. This works great in a hotel room where you can also act as though you paid to get your lover to do these things. But play fair, and let her ‘hire’ you out too!

Stripper: Give your lover a strip tease they can’t stand! Dance up on stage and see if you can’t get them to go crazy. See if you can do a good enough job to have them try to stuff dollars onto you, and maybe even try to jump you right on stage. If your partner does get driven wild enough to do that, drive them even crazier by denying them until they take their place up on the dance stage.

Secretary/Manager: If you have a home office, or if you work together, this scenario would be greatly heightened. Try to seduce your secretary or let them come on to you, then get busy with the ‘work’ on your desk or meeting room table. Try to seem like you don’t notice they are trying to seduce you at first - after all, you can’t be sexually harassing people on the job! Give in gradually then give your lover all that they desire.

Model/Artist: This works great if one of you actually is an artist. But even if you aren’t, the artist gets the model to pose exactly as they want. They can start painting a perfect nude, or start painting on the nude. Using body paints or the aforementioned chocolate body frosting is great fun for this role.

Doctor/Patient: Playing doctor was a fun game when you were a child, and it’s even better when incorporated into sex. You can use a variety of fun props, and do a lot of touching, ‘examining’, and playing while checking up on your patient. You can also do doctor and nurse, it’s all a matter of preference.

If you want to act out less uncommon roles, or want to try a few things that are outside your normal sexual realm, here are a few more ideas. Some of these serve to break down sexual taboos and some can be just strange, but they are all taken from actual fetishes and role play experiences.

Master/Slave: This is taken from BDSM (Bondage Dominance Submission and Sado Maschocism) and is where one person is completely subservient to the other. This is often a very big fantasy for more people than you would think. Being completely controlled seems contrary to what people might think is normal in sex, but the power play between a master and slave is a very intricate one.

If you like whips, being tied down, being ordered around, or being the one that does all of that, this would be a good scenario to try out. Remember though, that your slave can always turn it around on you, making you the slave - isn’t the thought delicious?

Gender Bending: This one definitely isn’t for everyone, but there are people that are interested in it. Taking on the role of the other sex can be a fascinating look into the mentality of your partner. Being the woman or man when you’ve never done anything like that before can make you feel ridiculous or sensual. It depends on your preferences and how open minded you are. You will want to talk about this a lot before you do it, and make absolutely sure that you and your partner really do want to try it.

These are just a few ideas for you to play around with. Feel free to experiment with some of your own ideas, or make up scenarios that are even more wild than these. It will do your love life wonders to open yourself up to new emotions, experiences, and arousal.

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