So, you have your partner interested in some sexual role play, but there might still be some hesitation - what do you do? Instead of bailing on the idea completely, continue warming them up with erotic games.
This is building on the idea that sex doesn’t have to be serious business. It can be just as fun as a game, and in fact incorporated into many games!The best games are the ones that you come up with yourself. These can be tailored to you and your partner’s wants and needs, and will be much more special to you both. Nearly any normal game can be spiced up by sex, you just need to be creative.
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Some things you can try with classic games:
Who wants boring trivia? Transform your trivial pursuit game by coming up with all new questions. Make the answers to the questions all some type of sensual act, and if they get it right, you get to perform it on them. When your partner is more comfortable with the idea of role playing, you can also use this to choose a skit, scene, or role for them.
Candy Land - Oh the possibilities! Combining food and sex is just a great great thing. Sticky, sugary, tasty candy can be used during this game, and whenever someone is in the lead -they get full rights to do what they want with some convenient lollipops. Just make sure to clean them up well…
Twister - Do I even need to say anything more? Shuck the clothes and go to town! To make it more fun (and challenging) coating both of you in baby oil first will make this interesting. Just make sure not to break anything!
Ball pits - You know those kiddie ball pits with all the plastic balls? Moving around in there would be one really strange sexual encounter. I wouldn’t recommend doing this at a public one, unless you really want some strange looks (and pictures). There are plenty of good sized personal ball pits you can buy, and could you imagine the types of toys you could hide in there to surprise your lover with?
Chess - I’m sure you’re staring at this right now, wondering how in the world you could make chess erotic. All you need to do is get a chess set with glass pieces, then heat some and chill others. Whenever you capture your partner’s pieces, you get to use it on them, and vice versa. The glass will hold the temperature really well, and the sensation of that plus the glass can feel fantastic. I would recommend against insertion, however. Lord knows how you would explain that one to the emergency room!
Strip Poker - This is another no brainer. Play a game of poker with whatever variations and rules you might have. The loser of each hand gets to remove a piece of clothing. Just make sure you don’t stack it all on to try and ensure victory! This isn’t about winning, this is about fun.
Cyber Online Games - There isn’t any one specific game to recommend, but any of those online games where you get your porn star avatar and can have cyber with others in the chatroom or game world. Make this fun by having you and your partner in the same room, on different computers. See how fast you can work your partner up with only your words - bonus points if you get them to orgasm without even touching them! A really evil thing to do is to get them typing a lengthly response, especially after they get really worked up, then sneaking up behind them and just caress them - a sure pleaser!
With the exception of the last game, these are just adaptations of regular games - use your imagination for other games around the house. There are other games that are specifically designed with the erotic in mind - here are a few of my favorites that I like to play:
Sexual Delights - This is going off of the food plus sex combination that I hold so dear. Basically, this combines a date and foreplay into one convenient package. You eat your food as sensually as possible, sucking, licking, nibbling are all fair game. Making sure your meal contains aphrodisiacs is a good idea as well. When you finally get home, your love probably won’t even let you get into the front door before jumping you.
Back to Back - This game involves you and your partner tracing a message onto their back with your fingers. It is something that you want them to do to you, and they need to guess it. If they are right, you get to do something they want (hopefully sexual!). If they are wrong, you get what you traced - over and over again.
Strip Chocolate - I’ve mentioned I love combining food and sex, right? Chocoholics brings us this cute little board game that anyone is sure to love. This package comes with body frosting, paintbrushes, and some board game accessories (for some reason, I didn’t pay as much attention to the actual game as I did the frosting…).
Consenting Adults - While the name may sound a bit uninspired, this board game is a very good stepping stone into introducing role play. It has many different ways to get you to talk about your sexual desires, be honest with yourself and your partner, and have some really wild fun.
Dirty Dice - These are a classic pair of dice. One names a body part, the other names what you need to do to it. Little set up, no rules to worry about, and quick fun!
What’s the point of these games, you might wonder? Well, by having fun and exploring your sexuality, you get both yourself and your partner deeper in the mood for expanded sexual acts and to help open your mind. Just these games alone will help out with spicing up your relationship.
Once you get your partner comfortable with trying new things, especially the off the wall ones (I commend anyone who does do the ball pit game), you can start to introduce more role play elements into your sexual play.
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