The series of positions with the man on top starts from the most tradition – missionary, to some great ways to play around and alter the sensations that come into play with this positioning. Missionary is, of course, the most basic, and most time worn, of any sex positions.
Hell, in certain cultures and states, there were laws against using anything else! That’s a topic for another time, though. The main problem some people have with this position is that the woman does not get to have much control or activity. However, that is rather far from the truth!
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The one thing missionary has on other sex position is face to face, as well as full body contact. This is an extremely intimate and romantic position, and lends itself to a variety of sensations. Sex isn’t only about how deep you can get it, after all! On that topic, however – if you want some of the deepest possible penetration, the woman can fold her legs, holding behind the knees, and drawing her legs back, allowing the man to get very very deep.
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I’m going to go over this type of position because I absolutely love the feeling of control granted by being on top as a woman. There are many many variations of this type of position, and I can vouch for it being a huge hit in any variation.
To start off with, you would basically be in a reverse missionary position, with the woman on top, legs outside of the man’s. This allows for a much deeper penetration than the normal missionary, on top of the woman having full control on how deep and fast the penetration is. She would support her weight on her hands, placed on either side of the man’s body.
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A few variations from that is the woman sitting up and leaning back, arching her back and supporting her weight with hands on ankles or floor behind her feet. This also deepens penetration, as well as giving the man one hell of a view of her body. This position is commonly called Madame Butterfly. The man can help control her movement with hands on hips or butt, depending on how athletic you are.
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Doing the same old thing gets well… old after awhile. It might just be your solo time, or maybe you get ordered by your ‘master’ to masturbate - but you are only used to masturbating one way. Add some variety into your self love with these female masturbation techniques!
1. Sex toys - My top tip is using toys. Adding in a new sensation, both through the material, the material’s temperature, vibration, and shape, can bring a whole new dynamic to your masturbation experience. There are a ton of different types of toys - you can have just clit stimulators, insertion, vibrators, dildos - the list goes on and on. Starting a toy collection can have a great positive impact on your self loving time. Plus they’re just tons of fun and very different if all you have done is used your fingers.
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Before you can start in on the main course, you need your appetizer - foreplay. Your lover might not even be in the mood off the start, and you need a few sure fire methods to get her fired up.
1. Start off Slow - Foreplay isn’t a race to see just how fast she’ll let you have sex with her. Take it nice and slow, gentle touching and kissing are great to slowly get her into the mood.
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2. Hold off on going south - This is also not a race to see how fast you can get your mouth down there either. There are numerous areas on a woman’s body that are extremely sensitive to stimulation, and will help with overall arousal.
3. Moving to Massage - A slow, luxurious full body massage can simultaneous relax your partner and get them aroused. This combination can lead to great sex, as well as a great mood during and after intercourse.
4. Talk the talk - Many women love being paid attention to. While you are massaging her, tell her exactly what you want to do to her, where, and just how long and hard you’ll be doing it. Make it as detailed as possible, and see how fast that gets her worked up.
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