There are a few things you want to keep in mind with any anal sex position. You have to have low stress, comfortable positions to keep yourself in. This way it makes it very easy to enter and exit, and you can adjust the positions as your partner gets used to the intense experience that anal sex is. Remember the rules of anal – start small, and bring plenty of lubrication. It isn’t something you can just jump right into, and it definitely takes a lot of work to build up to. But my god, it is worth it.
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There isn’t a ton of room to work with as far as anal sex positions go, however. It is more difficult than you would think to have a comfortable position to go with, and again, lots and lots of time is required to do this. The most comfortable position that I have found is having the woman lay on her stomach, and have the man bring her into position by using his hands on her hips. This allows for easy access, as well as the woman being able to just relax and go with the flow.
The man can also just lay down on top of her, similar to spooning, but she needs to be ready to support most of his weight. This is a good one for after getting used to anal sex. However, I would not recommend it for starting out. If you do not like facing down on the bed, you can utilize the edge of the bed for your fun. This might make it a little bit easier for on the fly adjustments of the position as well.
On top of the positions, a few anal sex pointers: Start out small. Finger, butt plug, don’t start out going for gold, because no matter how many anal porn videos you watch, it just doesn’t go that way. Work up to it, and it’ll be wonderful. Force it and well – she’ll never want to try it again.
Lube. Lots and lots and lots and lots of lube. Did I mention you need lots of it? The more, the better, as you are obviously not going to have any natural lubrication, and I don’t care how wet a woman is, it’s not enough to compensate for the dryness of the ass.
Curiosity and a will to experiment help out a lot here too. Some just don’t want to try it because they think it’s crass, or that it will hurt. Again, this goes back to going too fast, too soon. It doesn’t hurt if you get used to it slowly, and become accustomed to the sensations.
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