Want to explore anal sex with your male partner? Well, you’re in the right place. I’ll lead you through all the key parts to enjoying some hot strap on sex. First off, why even consider strap on sex? It’s simple - there are a mass of nerve endings both around and in the ass. Furthermore, the male equivalent of the Gspot is located near the prostrate. It is a few inches inside the rectum, and you can feel a slightly different texture when you run your finger over it.

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This can provide men with some intense orgasms, as long as they are open to trying out anal sexual activity. So the first thing you’ll want to do is open up a line of communication with your partner and see if they really want to try it. Good anal sex relies on both parties being open (very open), relaxed, and willing to try something new. You don’t just plunge right into it, so make sure that you’ve discussed it thoroughly.

Once you’ve decided to go ahead with it, you’ll need to pick out a strap on that works for you. This will probably be unlike any other sexual experience that you have tried, so you will want to take your time and get a good quality strap on. The main part of a strap on is the harness. You want to make sure that it’s a material that won’t break under duress, is comfortable, and will fit snugly on you. You don’t want it to be painfully tight, but having your dildo flop around isn’t very good for the experience either.

Leather is a great, long lasting material for a strap on harness. Some harnesses come without dildos, while others have a selection of toys for you to mount up. What type of dildo you would like really depends on you and your partner’s personal preferences. I would recommend getting a variety of sizes, shapes, and textures so that you can experiment with all types of sensations. Ideally, you would start off small and go bigger. One particular type of dildo that I like to use for strap on action is a double header - that way you both get pleasure.

Next up is the lube. Get a water based lube and make sure to use it liberally. The main key to any type of anal sex is nice and slow, and lube will help you to slide right in without pain. Many people are tense with their first anal sessions, so you just need to keep on making sure they are relaxed completely.

Now, onto the process! This is one hell of a role reversal, so its okay to feel weird at first. Take it easy, and take it slow, since having a fake penis is new to you, and getting his ass screwed is new to him. You’ll have a unique and sexy learning experience together, and I guarantee you will be back for more.

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